Dez Desire


I can offer a variety of sessions. My favorites and specialties consist of semi-competitive grappling/wrestling and lift and carry.

Other than that I am also exceptional at boxing, scissor matches, and pro-wrestling style/fantasy matches. I suggest using the MMA cage or wrestling ring for such sessions.

If you are curious if you can hold your own against a trained strong woman or what a strong woman who is skilled can make you do against your will, you are at the right place ūüôā

There is a whole additional list of other types of sessions, so if you’re interested to seeing if that’s what I do, please ask or specify!

When it comes to using my fight skills, athletic ability, experience in the MMA cage, pro-wrestling ring or even the theater, I can deliver your dream session!

Yes, but with approved references.

You would need to provide for:

  1. Airfare
  2. Hotel Stay
  3. Minimum 2 hour session

Some cities that are of interest to me:

New York, Chicago, Dallas, Miami

I am an athlete not a prostitute. Please do not ask me for such activities. I do not know you, and if I did, as a professional, I do not participate in such.

I am a MMA fighter, a Pro-Wrestler and trained at various martial arts. If you want anything related to my training and skills you will not be disappointed.

Typical Sessions start at:

  • 1 hr – $400
  • Each additional hour $300
  • Lift and Carry – first hour $450

Special requests e.g. wardrobe may add to this.

Specific holds, role play characters, wardrobe, filming, and other requests that would not fit the regular session have an additional cost.

If you are not sure if something you want “fits” the regular session, just ask!

Short answer:  Rarely.

As you will read elsewhere on this web site, this is my job and my primary means of making a living. If I start giving discounts I will not be able to survive. So please respect what I do. I love what I do an truly feel it’s worth it.

I understand this is not cheap by any stretch. But everyone I have sessioned with has told me that its been worth every penny and they would do it again in a heartbeat and quite a few end up becoming regulars. So that is that! Read my reviews!

And also note prices for sessions have held steady since the early 1990’s and have not increased with inflation.

However in some cases I can consider 30 min for $200. And on some rare occasions when I get a last minute cancellation I will consider a discount to fill the spot.

My typical wardrobe for sessions is gym shorts and sports bra top. If there is a special request, most likely it will be extra. Look at the wardrobe extras section in these faqs.

Most important, you be comfortable! Please wear something non-revealing and non constricting so I can twist you up in knots, etc.

Yes, please ask and I will let you know if its possible. Most cases it may be a small bit extra. 

Some examples:

GI gear




Fastest way is to go to the booking page and submit the form.

Or go the traditional email route where you first send me specifically what you want, in as much detail as possible along with the LOCATION, DATE and TIME(S) that would work for you. Best to give as much detail of what you want and as many time slots. I would appreciate if you go through these FAQS for any questions that are already answered here. My time is what I have and I would like it if you respect my time and not ask questions which are already answered here.

I will respond back with possible time slots and the total fee based on any add on like wardrobe requests etc.

Once we agree on the fee and the time slot you will need to send a deposit.

Sessions are confirmed as soon as I receive your deposit. Deposit approx.  1/3 of the session is required to reserve.

Deposits can be sent via:

  • Paypal: (select ‘friends and family’ so no fee is taken out, or offer to cover the fee)¬†
  • Venmo: @DDbookings
  • Cash app:@DDbookings¬†
  • Bitcoin: I can send you my BTC Address

Once I receive the deposit, I will send you my phone number so that we can text on the day of the session and the location of the session.

Provide as much detail in the first email itself. Do not send a one liner like “can i do a session with you”:

  • What type of session you want – grappling, lift carry, fantasy wrestling etc
  • What do you want in the session – don’t be shy. If you are looking for a session, I have probably heard that request before. The more you communicate the better your session would be, since that is the only way I would know how to give you exactly what you need!
  • Preferred date and time of the session, with couple of alternate dates and times in case preferred time is not available
  • Your height/weight and experience level if grappling, boxing etc
  • Have you had wrestling sessions before
  • Where would you like the session to be at – your hotel room or if in Vegas, a rental of the MMA cage or wrestling ring
  • Previous session references

Short answer: Look at the reviews on my sessiongirls profile. I do this all the time. All my sessions are with deposits. 

Long Answer: This is my job. I am a full time athlete training for a career in MMA and Pro-Wrestling. I train for 4-6 hours a day during the weekdays and travel for performances (pro-wrestling) during the weekends. It leaves very little time for a job that can pay for my training. My training is expensive. Gym, Trainer and diet plan takes a lot out of me. With this being my primary and full time way to make money, my reputation is everything here.

Just like in your job if you cheat your employer or client you would be out of a job, the same applies to me as well.

I’ve noticed many session clients who have been sessioning for over a decade are not as keen with the online deposits because they never had to in the past. Truth is, times continue to change. Also, the session world has grown so much it’s not as much of a tight-knit communiy. There are a lot a “clients” who have faked emails and people etc. We females need to cover our asses just as we understand you do. The electronic money transaction options (Paypal, etc) is able to be retracted should you ever feel you have been burned. It’s a process, but if a gal does do that to you, you have that right. I have never, nor do I ever, intend on burning anyone. I am not a thief. I love conducting sessions and would never want to ruin my reputation to continue to have this work for silly deposits. I feel I’m getting practice and fulfilling your requests– it’s a win win all around. My trustworthy reputation preceeds me and I’d like to keep it that way.

In the unlikely situation where  I need to cancel on you I will refund your deposit.

Your cancellation is non refundable.

Las Vegas: If you are in Vegas we can do it in your hotel room or I have a place in Henderson (  30 min from the strip Р$60/hr extra) or a MMA gym 10 minutes from the strip ($60/hr extra).

Los Angeles: Can book a ring in Van Nuys or Santa Ana area ($60/hr).

Rest of the world: In my hotel room, when I am traveling or at your place (references approved) if you are sponsoring the trip.

Check my travel Calendar first over here . If I am not traveling РI will be in Vegas.

In Vegas:

  • Monday and Wednesday after 6PM
  • Tuesday and Thursday after 3PM
  • Fri – Sun: All day on the weekends when I am not traveling, let’s specify individually.


On travel:

     Please email me. Ask for a specific location and date based on what you see on my calendar.

Check my travel Calendar first over here .  

If the details are not there Please email me. Ask for a specific location and date based on what you see on my calendar and I will respond back with possible times.

When I know,  I will try to indicate the area on the travel schedule. So please look there.

If you do not see it there its likely because I also do not know, since my bookings are occasionally made later. 

However certain cities that I visit often I end up staying in the same location. 

Once I know my hotel – if you have sent the deposit – I will give you the hotel name and address. Please do not ask me for my hotel name and address without a deposit.

I have body slammed a 285lb man.

For sessions I prefer not to do more than 225lb– Although if I am feeling good I will consider up to 275lb.

Almost any kind of L&C that you can think of. L&C is one of my specialities. See my various L&C videos on this web site and across the net and also read some of my L&C related reviews.

Keep an eye out for my Blog for videos demonstrating my range of lift and carry.

If you do not see something specific ask.

Depends on the person. If they have a strong core and can hold stiff then yes I have done it.

Usually I am able to tell while doing a fireman carry whether overhead would work or not.

Note – right now I am recovering from a shoulder injury and not doing overhead for atleast the next 1 month

I am concerned about my privacy like many of you. I prefer not to have videos of my session floating around the internet. Although on some occasions after we have known each other with a few sessions and I am comfortable with you – we can discuss.

There is an added cost to record if we agree. Typically it ends up being approx $125. This is a discount to my custom video pricing described elsewhere on this site.

I am 5’10” – 165lb of muscle. My muscle weight is 75-85lb (muscle only).

Depending on the time of year, I range from 12% to 19% bodyfat.

At the gym I train mostly for MMA and do not go too heavy with the weights unless training for something specific.  That does not mean that I cannot bench or squat a ton, its just not my focus.

I am naturally strong, and prefer to have “functional” muscles.¬†

Yes custom shoots are welcome. 

Video prices
30 seconds = $25
1 minute = $50
3 minute = $75
5 minute = $80
10-14 minutes = $125
15-19 minutes = $150
20-25 minutes = $200
25-29 minutes = $250
30 minutes = $300
To add another person to the video
is an added $100-$125 for up to 15 minutes
$200 for 15+ minutes.

A roaming cameraman typically costs about $50 flat, so order a couple videos to make it worth it! Otherwise, I’ll use a tripod for filming.

 Beatdowns, passing/knocking out, wardrobe requests, and very specific requests incur small additional fee ($25-$100)